Showing posts with label US. Show all posts
Showing posts with label US. Show all posts

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Nice to come back...

It always feels nice to come back to this page..... I haven't written much..since I left Logan. Life has caught on. But I hope and wish to come back to writing again more frequently. For now... remaining moments of 2011 are as follows...

Trip to New Orleans, October 2011 with Avanti and Divya (Our Annual Retreat)





November : month of celebration for the wonderful years of my existence on this planet..

Hiking in Millcreek on my Bday with Michael, Lola and Sadie








Sushi at night




@ Road trip to Moab in a sports car with Lani and memorable stay at Sunflower Bed and Breakfast





@ Backpacking to Havasupai (Native American Village), Arizona during Thanks Giving Holiday with old and new friends..





December : Trip to California after many years... catching up with old friends, new status and AGU Conference..







and some people who were lost.. during the year

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Highlights of the year 2011


The year so far...


Made New Friends..




Did my first Sprint Triathlon... 27th August
(400m swim, 10 miles Bike, 3.2 miles Run)

Started Running this year as well (May 7th 1st 5k ~ Cancer)

Triathlon Support and Cheering Folks..



Started Road Biking Long distances ( 30 -40 miles)


Bought a new road bike "Specialized Roubiax" July

Hiked some of the big mountains around SLC



Camped Flaming Gorge and Dinosaur N M



Gardened : grew my own organic vegetables.. (April - present)





5th June : Performed in SLC Library



June : Amrita Visited went on Geode hunt with some little friends..

June : went back packing & made new friends..



May 7th : Lost Columbus :( (It all started from here)

Feb : Visited Rajasthan with the whole gang :)


Feb : Went home, Long deserved holiday

Feb : Found a new sister :)

Feb : The Big Fat Bong and French Wedding ..

Dec 31st and Jan 1st : The Foundation of good year was laid that day :))

Thursday, September 10, 2009

@ Kashmira - From Comment to Post

@ Contd from "Why I love Amrika?"

Kashmira, I think am unable to make my point clear here either because I am not a good writer or because we have different expectation, from the country and its people, including me and you.

I will give it one more try with examples -

I am not comfortable with the idea that if I am stuck alone in a railway station at night I do not have access to any system where I can call and seek help. If somehow I managed to get hold of a constable to ask for help, I regret it to find out that he is drunk himself.

I am not comfortable when I'm traveling by myself in AC-2 tier and I have bunch of drunken men next to me ogling, and I feel helpless that i cannot reach a secure system that can throw those men down from the train coz they are breaking the law of drinking at a public place.

Fortunately, I have survived both the situations. In both cases I was up whole night, and on guard. Thankfully my phone was working and I was talking to my family thought I was in a hotel!

I don't know whom to blame for this fear - the system as in the govt. or just those people, who have accepted it as the way of life and do not expect the basic security or feel the need to respect law or be responsible either.

Yes, life is still going on and will probably go on and I wonder how many people each day are joining the crowd who eventually give in to corruption, law breaking and bribery as the normal and only way of life.

I am positive that there are still many good people who are fighting everyday to stick to their principle and leading a normal life, but none of those people, are among the people who are leading the country.

And that bother's me.

Every society works on the principle of 'Top-Down' its never 'Bottom-Up'. Whatever happens in the top trickles down to the bottom. That's the basic principle of life and flow. And I am not happy with what has been trickling down for last 60 years. I do not accept it and I will not support or blindly accept that everything is fine!

I form the bottom of this society. I cannot turn around the system. I can only leave a positive mark hoping that it remains positive in future and ripples a positive circle around it.

There is a big problem in the attitude and mindset of people. And I have a right to say or take a stand on what is wrong. If I can do something about fixing it, great. If, not I can atleast take a stand and say, what is wrong is wrong. Period.

And the fixing, by each individual is done in their own way, in their daily life by following whatever they believe in or they abide by and if they believe in fixing in the first place. But again fixing at an individual level can only ensure few fixed points here and there at the bottom line. It won't help in the long run.

It's not a working principle to take a step forward. If one has to step forward you have to get up, stand on your feet and leap forward. THAT'S it. Simple principle of walking.

And that's not what we have been doing all these years. We have been sitting, lazing around and talking for past 100 - 200 years!

With few people here and there from the bottom taking the effort to walk! But not ONE effort from the TOP towards the goal of walking.

And that's my problem.

Do let me know if I could make my point. If not, then I guess, I just do not have the ability to convey my thoughts.

Tanu

**" the comment was too big to read in the comment section. Do get back. I want to know if I was able to make my point or not? If I fail to convey my thoughts to you, then I need to work more towards conveying my thoughts on this issue in future" :) ****

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

Things I don't like about Amerika !

After hearing the health insurance debate in the evening.. I got reminded of things I do not like about this country.

Their health care system!

Having said that, Health Care System is something I am very proud about India. If only we could market it well and make India the world center for all health care facilities, research and services!

HEALTH CARE SERVICES OUTSOURCED TO INDIA !

WOW !

Anyway, back to present, the US.

From the time you realize, you are not well to receiving actual treatment, you would have lost crucial healthy days! Dr's won't touch even if you are dying unless you have the required insurance. And if you are at an emergency then god save you from the wait!

I am fortunate to have never fallen sick here in last 6 years. But I have seen friends suffer due to the health care system here. Be it minor problems like stomach ache, soar throat or an emergency situation.

And my take is, remain healthy if you are in US!

Having said that, I have to be honest about accepting that I was feeling very unhappy after writing the previous post on Why I like Amerika. It's because appreciation is always done on a relative scale. You are always comparing it to something else. And I was comparing it to my country. A discomfort for indirectly accepting honestly what I do not like about my country.

It's very hard to criticize about something you care about. And even harder to accept that its not doing the best. It's like parents with spoilt undisciplined unruly kids walking towards their own destruction or on the wrong path. It's like accepting bad qualities. And who likes that!

I don't!

I have to balance it by showcasing some good things, I cherish in my memory. Cultural and Ethenic diversity is something that I remind myself during such moments. Natural beauty and the rich history. But I can't go further. Unfortunately I have to always look into the past to re-paint the picture green. And I guess that's partly the problem too.

We have been living in our past. And hence have never moved forward. Never really looked around to see what's happening in rest of world and awaken our conscious to be righteous, honest, respectful, proud and loved towards the self, not for the past BUT for the present. The present we are living in, the present we are going to leave behind for the future. A present where we do not need a recognition from anybody but ourselves, from fellow cit izens, from within , from every soul for being able to offer the best not only to ourselves but to every living soul around, and also to the world.

WOW! Will I ever see experience that pride in my life time?

An altruistic feeling, that I am doing good and I want to make sure that my neighbors are doing good as well. And every 'I' in the society believes in the same. It's not UTOPIAN. Life in Logan has been this way. I don't know if the whole of US is same but definitely the small town I have lived in has been this way from the day I landed.

I don't lock the door to my apartment or my car ever. I have been returned my wallet with everything intact more than 10 times! And it's for real.

I will possibly never get over my dissatisfaction of things I am unhappy about at home. I will probably never be able to see the India I dream of, but I hope I never give up on an opportunity to do something or make a difference or loose the tiny bit that still throbs inside me!

God Bless America. And let some blessing be outsourced to India, too!

I guess, this answer's Alex, question on ' Why do you blog?'
Self Talking, was my reply!

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Why I love Amerika !

For the Freedom, Honesty, Love for themselves and the Security this country provides it citizen or anyone who wants to live here or has lived here even as a student.

What does every child while they are growing?

Love and Security from their parents. The thought that No, matter what my parents won't give up one me! They will stand by me.

It is the same feeling that grows beyond your parents, to your extended family, your wife, your husband, your friends, your society and eventually to your country.

No matter what, 'They won't give up'.

You grow up with this idea and belief. It's your pillar and strength, which eventually becomes your motivation and inspiration to ' Give Back'. It becomes the major driver to survive and glide through all the challenges.

Now what happens, when one fine day you wake you and realize the people you loved, you believed and admired are don't really love you, Don't really care for you! They are there for their own selfish motives. And the moment it is achieved they will move on!

You feel orphaned! You feel deceived! You feel homeless!

It's a terrible feeling.

I have been feeling homeless since last year, 26/11 !

The closer I get to the end of my journey or stay in America, I feel I have no where to go to!
I feel homeless. I feel orphan.

This is where the society and the civilian meet.

When I came to the US, I came with a dream a passion, of doing something for India. I cannot describe in words how much it meant to me. It led me to do my PhD study in India. I went with all odds and hardships to be able to go back and work in India. Inspite of being aware of all the fallacies in my backyard, I had a HOPE. And I knew deep down inside, that One day I want to come back. And work towards a better India.

No doubt, that with every trip back to India, I have lost a bit of that passion. But it was never hopeless. It never died until, the last nail on 26/11.

That was the day - I LOST IT, COMPLETELY. I WAS AND I AM TRULY HOPELESS.

Today, when I am at the crossroad to decide where I want to be and where I want to contribute, the answer I get from within is - Do I have a choice?

I always believed in giving back to the system that has made me who I am. I am who I am for my parents. I am who I am, for the love and affection they have given me, for their trust and support. And I want to give it back to them.

Everything I do in my life is directed towards eventually making them happy and comfortable for the rest of their life. And I want to do it not only for them but for the future, my children, my cousin, my younger generation, to a new life, to the future. I want to give them the best. I want to give them what I did not get.

But can I do it in India?

I don't know. I feel homeless!

Yes, I can for sure take care of my parents and give them all the happiness they deserve. But when I look forward to the future, I am deeply hurt. And I cannot say and 'Yes' to what I have to offer to them. I cannot give them, what I see today. I cannot give them what I have in my backyard.

I cannot promise them the freedom, love, and security that I saw in somebody else's backyard. It will be a lie. A lie that will never come true!

Do I need to move to a new backyard?

May be yes.

WOW! I never realized the need to have a different backyard until last year!

Do I have a chance ?

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I don't know. I guess 'TIME' will present with an answer by itself. Could not stop myself from not thinking about as US remembers and reminds the rest of the world about 9/11 !

Previous post related to 26/11

What Can I do ?

We have failed everybody!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Today, 20th Jan 2009 - I believe, I can, I will

I don't know why but Obama's speeches always reminds me or reconnects me to Swami Vivekananda's Lecture in Chicago in 1849 "Sister's and Brother's of America ..."

I find the same courage, conviction, strength, honesty, passion, anger and hope to set aside, reaffirm, meet and conquer the challenges... "ALL ARE EQUAL, ALL ARE FREE, ALL CAN PURSUE THEIR HAPPINESS"




President Barack Obama's Inaugural Speech Promises 'New Way Forward'
On the steps of the nation's Capitol, just a short distance from where Martin Luther King, Jr. delivered his "I Have a Dream" speech, using the same bible Abraham Lincoln did for his inauguration, with the country in dire conditions similar to when FDR took office, Barack Obama was official sworn in as the 44th president of the United States of America on in Tuesday afternoon (January 20).

His Entire speech

My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often, the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forebearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land -- a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America: They will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn-out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the fainthearted -- for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things -- some celebrated, but more often men and women obscure in their labor -- who have carried us up the long, rugged path toward prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.

Time and again, these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions -- that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act -- not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions -- who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them -- that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works -- whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public's dollars will be held to account -- to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day -- because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control -- and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our gross domestic product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart -- not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: Know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort -- even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus -- and nonbelievers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society's ills on the West: Know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment -- a moment that will define a generation -- it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends -- hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism -- these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility -- a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation and the world; duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence -- the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed -- why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent Mall, and why a man whose father less than 60 years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

"Let it be told to the future world ... that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive... that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it]."

America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested, we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back, nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations. God bless you and may God bless the United States of America.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

LA in Danger

We just reached LA...after 48hr of separation from internet, blogs and emails..

I don't know what's the compulsion with wanting to check email when I know I have no important business deal or deadline to make/mate or crushes to chat :) !!

May be its just addiction of checking emails every hr, specially when am in US. I did want to check my email last night for a short while but forgot in presence of Vegas lights and babes :), :D.

Anyway highlights till now of my first self driven road trip in the US -

1. We left pretty much on time, just 1hr late at 8am
2. I counted 25 truck I overtook while driving on I-15 south from SLC to Vegas, but soon I lost count. I also gradually lost the suction that I feel every time I pass by those 'MEGA TRUCKS' :)
3. Inspite of my all efforts to sleep and not having to drive into Vegas, my brother woke me up and made me drive into Vegas !! It was scary. I freaked out and my hands were sweating!! God, save his children, he is a persistent teacher, who cannot be dodged!
4. Mom won $5.00 at the Sahara Casino :)
5. The V-Ultimate show was awesome, these Vegas shows are just awesome. One has to watch them to believe them. Just awesome. But I was wondering if those guys were gay, but what strength in their wrist. We were not allowed to take picture or record the show, but I was just left open mouth. :O!!! - This is among the good things in Vegas.
6. Food at Sahara sucked! The dinner buffet was horrible, no Bakwaas! Don't eat there ever !!
7. Mom was scandalized by the waitress roaming around in the casino for their short, skimpy, sesky atire :o) " Zor ka zhatka zor se laga and baar baar" :)
8. The good things - Food at Gandhi was awesome :). EVERYBODY must eat there when in Vegas. Lunch buffet, $9.50 paisa wasoool food. We hogged :)
9. Mom's gopal also saw Vegas shows, Vegas Babes, and Vegas Casino's :)
10. Saw lots of new car - Old Cadilac, Old BMW, Old Buck. Must say there is a style and attitude in these Old cars :) Or 'Old is gold' :)
11. I DROVE FOR THE FIRST TIME AND SUPER THRILLED THAT I MADE IT to LA without tickets, without hitting anybody or being hit either. As usual my brother made me drive into LA !! I made it but I missed the correct exit, and had to listen to the freaking GPS to recalculate and re-navigate. I am not sure but am wondering if I deaf in one ear as I can't hear what the GPS tells when its on the blue tooth headset on my left ear !! :(
12. Last but not the least, driving on highway is easier than inside a new city as I cannot read the street names unless am right infront of it. I got honked twice as I stopped in middle of the road in green light, which I have a hard time in noticing.

I think LA is in danger with me roaming around with a bad eye sight, partially color blind, left deaf ear and persistent brother who has taken a vow to make me a driver in US !!!

That's all for now... more in pics..

E.N.J.O.Y
(to my visitors here)

Thursday, October 02, 2008

The Break...

The long waited break is here fine.. I was looking forward to it.. too many things are happening or criss-crossing at this point in my life, like always :)

Ok, so tomorrow am off to Chicago for a 'surprise treat to parents'. I have this thing of surprising people, or more specifically close friends and family. My surprise treats head back to school days, or boarding days when I would show up at home in the middle of night or unexpected!

My Mom, would obviously be shocked, with a loud squeak or scream if she happened to open the door. And if it was dad, then after he absorbs the shock we would pair up to shock mom, :) ..

Thankfully I have been able to keep up with this trait, even while I was here in the US. I showed up at home, (India, Kolkata) on Saptami morning of 2006! It was such a big hit ! I was totally thrilled. Everything worked perfect!

Among friends, I have only surprised Shyam and Madan till date by visiting them other than usual B'day surprises to others..

Even this year when I was visiting India for my fieldwork, Dad, requested not surprise them as that changes there whole plan and program :) Somehow I was considertate!

So going with my self created legend, I have to keep up with myself...and surprise parents while they are here !

And hence my Chicago trip :) . With their Passport being stuck at the canadian embassy I was almost becoming a surprize to myself !! Thankfully it all worked fine and now they are ready to leave. They are expected to arrive at Chicago on Tuesday 5 am :) ..

I am yet to decide if I should just pat my mom from behing in the aircraft, or meet them at domestic terminal or at the exit of the International Arrival ! Not sure! Will do the final planning impromptu!

When I told this to my brother, he as usual gave his practical advice, use your money and time effeciently, :) It's true but all time and money is worth spending for a glipmse of that surprised, happy, unexpected, peaceful, smile on the faces of your loved ones..

So, as I was planning on this surprise came along a small surprise for me too :) . Meeting another online person. This year has been a year of 'Online Surprises' :)

And I think am becoming more and more confident with meeting strangers, having a good time, living for the moment, and above all enjoying life :)

Wish, there was some Offline surprises in store too :)