Not because am scared of being rejected, but more so because I just love the blissful feeling of being in love and I like live 200% of that feeling. Be a sponge and completely absorb it. It's bliss. And also because I do not take life, myself or the other one for granted. Who knows, if I will feel the same way tomorrow or not! Who knows if it will be the same feeling or not, or when I will feel it next, and offcourse you have a lot of surprises that life throws at you :) . ..Irrespective of which category it falls in (One sided, two-sided, multi-sided, short term, long term) the feeling of being in love is 'Blissful'. May every soul experience and live in it.
NOW IN Anjuli's WORDS
"my mind was itching to write for a long time and today I finally got time to write so I am writing on my favorite topic....mujhe Aamir Khan ka dialogue (from the movie Dil Chahta Hai) yaad aa gaya...."mujhe yakeen hai ki mera janam isliye hua hai ki main tumhe pyaar kar sakoon" I also feel the same, I guess I am born to love and now that I have found the love of my life I have all the more reasons to write about it.... so here I go....
Love....so many people and those many definitions of love, I wonder who infact attempted defining it...there is no need for that because when it happens to you, you just get to know what it is...
I am not attempting to define love here, I am just trying to tell all those people who want to fall in love, are in love or will ever fall in love to know what I have learnt about it so far in my life...
1. First and foremost...don't jump into conclusions whether its love or no...if it is it will stay and if its not it won't, so don't jump...just wait patiently for the air to get cleared...
2. Like it take two to tango, it takes two to love, its always both sided, mind u, I am not undermining the intensity of one sided love, but sooner or later it fades off because believe me it takes two to love, and if its love, the way u feel for ur love, the same way ur love also will feel for u, no one will have to take any extra efforts to prove his/her love, the other person will understand.
3. True love always comes back...i know its cliched but its 'the truth' about love, around a year back when S had told me this, I had told him that no if it is not coming back, there would be compelling reasons for it and I will make my love come back...but today I know how wrong I was....True love comes back...no matter what, there are no compelling reasons for it not to come back, if its love, it comes back and if does not it never was ...
4. True love is selfless...if you are thinking about u first and then ur love, you probably are either not in love or may be u need more time...
5. Love is different from relationship, don't mix the two up, even if u are in love, give time for the relationship to build up, don't take relationship for granted, it needs a lot of efforts and calls for a lot of time and labour to bulid up, but once its built no other fruits are sweeter than the fruits of this hardwork...
6. Trust your lover, if there is no trust, there is no love...don't worry it does not come at once, it takes time, don't undermine ur love just because the level of trust is lower than the level of love, just give urself some time, it will come...but believe me its the most important thing, if its not coming easily, work on it...
7. Tell your love that you love him/her, as often as u can,it helps buliding the bond.
8. If you want to get priority from your lover, give him too the utmost priority, don't worry, it happens on its own once u are in love, so no need to put extra efforts there :)
9. Be honest, transparent and trustworthy, it will echo back to u :)
10. Believe in love, its the most beautiful feeling in the world, just to quote a line from the movie "Pyaar to hona hi tha": Har insaan ko zindagi mein ek baar pyaar zaroor karna chahiye, pyaar insaan ko bahot achha bana deta hai" belive me its true!...
Abhi ke liye itna hi....more laterzzzzzzzz......
Take care guys!
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I think I will start a new section here for the posts of others that I really like and would like to remember. That way I have them even if they delete, change or remove their blogs and posts.
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