Why Miss ?

People miss each other for various reasons. I was thinking about it.. and came up with the following (to add- in if anyone has more)

they miss the fun they used together...
they miss the comfortness they shared together...
they miss just the being together...
they miss just the presence of someone...
they miss each others company..
they miss the warmth..
they miss the magic, the sparkle....
they miss the friendship...
they miss the tea or food cooked by them..
they miss the ease of just being themselves..
they miss the doing nothing together..
they miss the kindness and gentleness..
they miss the laughter...
they miss the affection...
they miss the spontaneity..
they miss the care....
they miss the blissful communication in silence....
they miss the home, they know they can go back anytime..

but all these moments are lost when you remember...

their insensitiveness...
their harsh words...
their brutal behavior...
their unkindness...
their hardened, deeply piercing words...
their opportunistic mode of conduct..
their selfishness...

but .. then... you realize...

you gave them the authority to hurt you,
or affect you...

then comes the 'shield' that protects you from being hurt again...
and only few, a selected few, very few make a entry back..
but most loose the ability to affect you anymore...
The one's that make they entry back, are the ones, you cherish throughout your life...

They become the pillars of your life...
while the others just get lost in the journey called life...


And hence I enjoy and celebrate the people who stayed,
And the people I stayed back for..

Cheers