Khattaam Wala Payaar

Watched Dil Chahata Hai after looooooooooooooongggggg time.....

Maaza agaya..

Don't know if the bollywood marketed true love exists or not....but the movies are so convincing to make you fall into the trap, he he he :)

I call it 'Khataam Wala Pyaar' ..that apparently is experienced by all..or as the movie showed finally realized by all three friends..

I had liked the Character 'Akash' in the past. And it stands still the same. This movie was made so brilliantly that I am falling short of words. Did not have a blog then, else would have compared my thoughts with then...

I haven't grown much since then, i.e, 2001 :) except that I remember watching it with my First Boy Friend ...Don't remember if I felt this 'Khatam waala payaar' for him or not! Did not to quantify or judge feelings and emotions back then.. Just went with the flow :) and felt or rather believed what am feeling IS the TRUE LOVE ...

Btw this movie also is the aniversary movie for the first break up :) .... he he he he he..

7 years from then, today I feel Nope it was not! To be really honest, I do not think that I have felt that Khatam wala pyaar till now..which means possibly 'Kahani Abhi Baki Hai :) '

7 years from now when I revisit this post, I don't know what am going to have to write...let see if I have or find a different name for it..

The Free Online Link to the Movie : Dil Chahata Hai


But the few things that I am convinced about life, also presented in the movie are -

1. Only two people who really really love each other should marry
2. I surely want somebody like me, no emotional jheek jheek :), only bakwaas, and some work :)
3. Love does not happen in a planned scheduled. Everything planned is only crush, infatuation, or attraction or ways of getting laid :) SIMPLE !
4. Its Magic when it happens.. (the word Magic reminded me of something beautiful in my life)
5. All relationships cannot be defined within the four letter word LOVE, which ends in Marriage
6. When you really want someone's happiness than wanting that person, you know you love that person
7. Heart break focuses you in work :) , I need to have one to finish my Phd :)
8. Control freaks will always remain control freaks
9. Genuine friendship or love never dies, it always breathes within you even if you are miles apart, have fought or run out on time!
10. If you know today, is your last day on earth, and you have only one hour the person you would want to meet is the person you love :) (for me it keeps changing every three months, he he :)
11. Words are worthless when you can hug and touch the true emotions. Its so true. It my litmus test. People say when a guy kisses, gals can make out if this guys is genuine or not! Am not so sure about that...as I think I will/might be confused due to the influence of my hormones. BUT A HUG WITH CLOSED EYES, tells me everything........I just know it. The first Hug, was so different from the last hug :) with someone with whom I just felt or experienced the 'M' of Magic :)
12. Mom's are gods creatures they just know it :)
13. Attraction is not same as Love
14. A friend told 'Love is always both sided and attraction is one sided' although I have felt 'Attraction is always both sided and love is one sided' he he he :) (this was tangent, but will check on this after 7 years as well)
15. Time is the best and the ONLY answer to everything, so do not try to run or push or cheat on time :)

16. Marriage should not or cannot be a compromise, within the marriage you can, you are allowed but the concept of 'Marriage Cannot be a compromise' !! NO WAY. It is something that you would surely want to do! Its absolute :)

I think for now...this is enough...incase I have any more enlightenment will jot them down here, as for now CUDOS' to the 'Khatam Wala Pyaar'


Amen, God Bless, Cheer's to life and love, shoove :)
Muuuuuuuuuuuuaaaaaaaaaa (khush ho gai)

...This post has to be linked to one of my previous Bakwaas 'What is Love?"